My bf son was well behaved all day and as soon as his dad got here that all went out the window I'm…

My bf son was well behaved all day and as soon as his dad got here that all went out the window I'm so irritated I'm trying to put my son to sleep and he won't stop jumping around climbing on the bed and talking all loud and his dad doesn't care enough to tell him to calm down and then he wonders why I get mad