Why doesn't my partner love me since having our daughter? He just has zero respect for me i don't…

I'm sure he does love you . Maybe he is just going through a bad time at work or something @proudmummy2017, x

Just talk to him about how you're feeling- having a baby does change things a lot so maybe he doesn't even realise that he's treating you differently! ☺️ xx

@unimummy he doesn't show it i mean I've been poorly for months And he's not shown anything to me i still have to wake up every night to feed our daughter etc i understand he works but he doesn't even help me out on days off. He does nothing to help me out. Well he's changed jobs like 3times since being in our flat only a year he's enjoying work its nothing to do with that. He's just not who is was when i was pregnant. X

@genieh i have tried he just either laughs or gets pissed off with me he doesn't listen he always ignores me continues to watch telly or plays the PlayStation. In an argument he told me he's only with me cos of our daughter not sure if he meant it cos it feels that way. Well I've told him god knows how much in 4 months he just acts like he doesn't like me x

@proudmummy2017 sorry but he sounds like a total knob! Is he a good dad to your daughter? Cause if not, you're probably better off without him! He shouldn't be making you feel like that and to laugh at your feelings/ insecurity is horrible 😕 x

He is a knob i agree. To be fair this is his first serious relationship and I really don't think he understands how you treat someone properly. He is a good dad he loves her to pieces plays with her etc but he just doesn't feed her or change her that much anymore then says well I work Lol xD. I know i am but i do love him but i really don't think he loves me anymore and i feel so broken i can't stop crying and feeling down he was amazing at my daughters birth and few weeks after that other than that he's changed dramatically. He doesn't even come out with us ever anymore i feel like a single mum xx i know im so insecure :'( @genieh

See it's the opposite for me, my partner has no problem changing and feeding but he says he's too tired to play with her much but instead takes her out in the pram! If he doesn't know you need to tell him what you need from him whatever it is- reassurance/ more affection/ help with baby and see if he steps up to the mark! X

Well i wish he would at least help out with something but he doesn't. Well he never ever takes her out never comes out with us all he does is work and then does nothing else. I have told him he says im making out he's a bad dad etc. He kicks off with me no matter what i need to talk to him about anything. X