Just to vent... My family always says they will help out whenever I need them. Then I ask for them to watch my 13 month…

I got the opposite problems. My mom and his mom is battleing each other cos my mom get to babysit once a week for 2hrs and his mom is jealous about it.

My mother was like that with me too it's funny they say they can't handle your kids at the same time but they've raised babies before lol my mother didn't start watching my kid until she was 4 🤦🏻‍♀️

That's crazy. I worked at a daycare and there were times I had 6 kids between the ages of 6-12 months, in my room. By myself. It's possible. I'm sorry they're making it so hard for you to get some time with your husband.

I hear ya. My mil and fil wanted a bunch of grandkids but won't watch any off them.

@beebaby, yes! My MIL says oh I'll watch them, then calls every two mins that we are gone. Last month he took me to get my feet done then dinner. Before we even got to the mall she had called 5 times saying he wouldn't stop crying, she thinks he needed Tylenol, etc. he didn't. She just won't play with him and he gets bored. So she's scratched off for babysitters. My SIL barely watches him for us when I needed to go to the hospital for this baby. She only had him and hour and when my mom got there, she looked at him and said it's time for me to go I've dealt with you all day! Wtf!? I just don't get it

I hear ya. It's a shame. My mil decided last minute she didnt want to keep my son while i was in labor because she randomly wanted to be there for the birth of our son. I told her no because my son can't be here, they can wait in the waiting room. She said that wasn't fair and left my son there almost made her son miss the birth of his child because we had to call our neighbors to come pick him up and keep him until my sister drove 4 hours to get him for me. I still allow her a relationship after that and she is just a trophy grandma. She buys them stuff but spends no time with them. I don't care for my parents or his