Rant! I feel like my Bf sees me as just a babysitter for his oldest son .. cause he won't help me…
Rant!
I feel like my Bf sees me as just a babysitter for his oldest son .. cause he won't help me with our son .. ugh I hate it cause his mom told him she had found someone to take care of him but he got stubborn and said no I want her to take care of him even if I told him I couldn't he makes me feel bad cause I won't take care of his oldest.. my hands are full just taking care of my son and cleaning the house and everything else I gotta take care of ... and it doesn't help that my bf is gone from 5am to 6 or 7 pm 7 days a week ... I'm just tired of being the "the bad guy " cause I say no to taking care of him sometimes and it doesn't help that his son also requires a lot of attention sometimes and acts up cause he thinks it's okay .. ugh 😒😒
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
How old is he? His son.
Evelyn Nunez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@luceromommy, 3 gonna be 4
Eryka·
That's a lot to take on but I mean you knew he had a son when you got with him but also you shouldn't have to watch him everyday that's just ridiculous
Evelyn Nunez ·
Мама сына-младенца
@eryka616, I know I'm fine if it's 1 or 2 days but he has him Friday to Monday and wants me to take care of him all 4 days I'm like no you're crazy you're asking me to give up a lot and his mom doesn't want him full time anymore meaning he'll keep him all week I'm like nope you need to find someone else to take care of him cause I mean him mom put him in a daycare but she'll willing to pull him out just to not keep him full time
Jamaica·
Мама сына (1 год)
I kinda feel bad for that kid. 🙁 Your bf should make time for his oldest son though. If you get stuck with the situation, try making the best out of it. I have a membership with an indoor playground close to my house and just take my son there to play almost every day. Maybe it's something you can do with your son and his sibling. It wears them out and you can take a little breather from the usual. I feel you though, I only have one 18th month old and it seems that he gets all my time and attention. Hang in there!