Have any of you tried couples therapy? If you can plz share what cause you to go, what you thought…
Have any of you tried couples therapy? If you can plz share what cause you to go, what you thought about it, and did it help? Be every general, I know some people can be very mean when people are sharing their story. Thank you
Tierra·
I did marriage counseling before getting married because I wasn't getting married without it and honestly I'm happy I did.. My last relationship I was supposed to but my ex/bd was so iffy with it .. I believe its great @daradee01
Dee Rich·
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Thx @mamiiscorp I truly appreciate it
Tierra·
You're welcome @daradee01
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It was mandatory for us to get it before we got married and We had a few sessions after my son was born bc we were on 2 different pages. You have to be very careful that the therapist is neutral bc that can make things worst. One of the therapists got into it with my husband and they were going back and forth while I sat there like the therapist. Overall, it was helpful to have an outsider perspective. I ended up having him choose the therapist so he would take what they said more seriously and they gave us tools that helped with arguments etc. I would def recommend it.
Dee Rich·
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Thank you @kimny I appreciate you sharing ur experience. Something has got to be done. We truly love each other but something has to give. Enough is enough.
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I get it. The way I look at it is when you need financial advice you go to an advisor; car repair mechanic; health advice doctor. Why not go to a professional that deals with relationships. It's hard when 2 people from different backgrounds come together and have to operate as 1 unit especially when you add kids to the mix, but if both people are willing therapy can be successful.