So I've been really nervous on if our baby girl will get some physical traits that I have.. My ears are really small and…
So I've been really nervous on if our baby girl will get some physical traits that I have.. My ears are really small and folded. My dads are like that and I was born with them like that too. Picture in the comments. And my 2 of my toes curl in, and I was also born like that. Picture also in comments. Idk who I got it from. It doesn't cause any harm and it didn't change anything but I was really insecure growing up because of that. I'm wondering what the chances are that our baby will have that too?? On the ultrasound her toes look fine I think and so do her ears. But I'm not really sure?
Alicia Gómez·
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Stephanie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I say you learn to love it and rock it this way you can teach her and she won't be insecure, it will just be something that makes her like one of the most important people on her world, mommy.
I hate my nose and am currently on the learning to love and rock it part :) just in case.
Alicia Gómez·
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@luceromommy, thank you, I just really don't want her to have it.. I mean if she does, that's fine I just would prefer if she didn't.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I don't know if you can really tell. You can ask the ultrasound tech I guess but you'll have to wait for baby to get here to be sure. You're only in the middle of your pregnancy, stress sucks for baby. Try not to worry about it. Think about the amazing things baby will get, you're gorgeous, go off that. Baby will be gorgeous because of mommy. Don't stress.
Krystal Beyard·
I agree with @luceromommy, we all have something we don't like about ourselves but in some way we learn to love whatever it may be through our children :) if that makes sense. I have a birthmark I hate, and both my children ended up with it (much larger though) but I wouldn't change that on them, it's part of them I love and I'm starting to get over the dislike I have for mine.
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
If you could see my cousins feet they look way worse than yours do all her toes curl under her feet are so swollen all the time and she eats healthy but it makes her seem 9 months pregnant and then she has these massive lumps on the side near her big toes that stick out and her feet are permanently red
Alicia Gómez·
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@luceromommy, it doesn't bother me. Like I learned to not really care. But I just got asked a lot in school like why my ears were so small and stuff like that and I started hating to wear my hair up. I'd never wear it up. It's always be down. And I don't want her to go through the same thing.
Alicia Gómez·
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@krystalft.two,
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
that's why you learn to wear up your hair and love it. If she has your ears show her your proud of yours so she learns to love hers
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Just like @krystalft.two, said. You'll learn to love it if your love has it