So my husband went back out to the lake were his family is staying at for the weekend last night and…

So my husband went back out to the lake were his family is staying at for the weekend last night and he came home around like 2 or 3 am and told me that all he has is me and the girls and that he is not that important to his family and that there friends are. They also still did not pay us back for the party like they said would they planed it and it was just supposed to be family and they invuted friends over so now he is hurt they did not say happy birthday or make it about him. Like they should have. They do this every time they come in and then complain they did not get time with us and blah blah. Ugh why say you want to do this for him and say you will pay us when i get there and then dont we did not plan it and need that money so now we are out money that we would have never spent and say it happens no it just does not justs happen like that.