I have some friends that I haven't spoken to in months maybe years and when we do finally get a…

I have some friends that I haven't spoken to in months maybe years and when we do finally get a chance to talk it's all love like we never skipped a beat. Than I have some friends that call you fake and phony bcuz u don't speak to them for days or don't answer your phone quick enough for their text or call. But I noticed the ones in the first sentence have a family and husband and home to take care of. The others don't even have a man of their own yet alone live or have kids of their own. So I totally understand their logic