Is it bad I feel like my husband is more of a teenage son to me nowadays then actually my husband? :( I mean we still…

Is it bad I feel like my husband is more of a teenage son to me nowadays then actually my husband? :( I mean we still love each other and have our romantic moments but then there's times like now where I think he only thinks of himself and does what he wants to do. I feel like he doesn't want to spend time helping around like he used to. I feel like I'm the mom and he's the teenager who gets to go and do whatever he pleases. Maybe I'm just paranoid about our situation but I feel like I put more time into everything then he does... is that wrong of me to think that, i don't know 🤷‍♀️🙁 Vent over