My MIL is ridiculous it's like she always needs something to complain about and make people pitty her! Today it's I'm not keeping the room and bathroom clean enough and I should help her more and I should have went outside today to help her like wtf I get up at 4:45 to make my SO lunch and take him to work come back and she already has our room and bathroom clean . I try to help her and ask her what she needs but she always says I got it.. i used to keep the dishes clean so she doesn't have to do it but she told me not to because I use to much water and she complained to my SO today about this like I can't help her if she doesn't let me and give me a chance to do it before she does!! Oh and I eat to much she made it sound like I just sit her eating all day like really I eat lunch and dinner and breakfast when she makes it without even asking if I want some just makes it so of course I'm going to eat it if she made it because then I would be wrong for wasting it! I just cabt even do anything right ! Can't win for losing. Damned if I do damned if I don't