Why is it that everytime I want something I have to get up and do it myself, I work all week, cook,…

Why is it that everytime I want something I have to get up and do it myself, I work all week, cook, clean, food shop and carry everything back by myself, go outside for whatever cravings I have but nobody can ever just offer to do anything for me. I can be starving and all I get is "well idk what to tell you". Ugh, I'm sick of life 😡