My husband gets so easily upset. Its hard for me to understanf because he feels as though im insulting him. For example,…
My husband gets so easily upset. Its hard for me to understanf because he feels as though im insulting him. For example, weve had 1 car for almost a year now since my daughter was born and i had to stop working. We struggled financially so we had to give the second car up. A couple months ago he got promoted so weve caught up with all of our bills. Were now spending some saved money on our daughters first birthday instead keeping the money saved for a second car. Which is alright with me, we both want to celebrate our daughters first birthday its tradition. However, it is just so hard depending on others for rides constantly. A ride to the store for necessities, or a ride to the school im trying to attend which now isnt even going to happen til July because i wasnt punctual in coming in with paperwork on time because i have no ride. My husband is constantly working 12+ hours. He has a lifted truck that i cannot drive and when hes off he wants to relax because he works so much. So i just suggested i get a bus pass and he got soo offended. "Dont even piss me off right now and offend me to make me feel like shit. We are not that low." Like thats not even what i was trying to do. I know he works hard and i appreciate it but its just not enough for us right now. I think a bus pass would be a good investment atleast for a little while. I cant always bug our family members they get annoyed of course they have lives and responsibilities and they dont always come through. I dont understand...
Abby·
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In my opinion he isn't doing anything wrong. Men with families have ALOT of pride and when they feel as though they can't provide EVERYTHING they need it really messes with their heads. If the need for a second car is so important I highly doubt your daughter will be disappointed if you cut back or even didn't have a party. A small get together is just as good 😊 do a cake with her and your man maybe some family but if it's causing stress on him and then on you it's not fair to anyone. The car is more important in my opinion. I hope this helps ! Sorry you are in this situation 😩
Denisa H·
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@abbydi thanks girl!