My SO irritates the hell out of me!!!! I swear I do EVERYTHING he goes to work, and sleeps. Gets up…

My SO irritates the hell out of me!!!! I swear I do EVERYTHING he goes to work, and sleeps. Gets up to eat all the food I buy, poop, make a lil mess here and there and yell at the kids sometimes. If he had it his way I don't think I'd ever talk or have anything to say. He says I'm "bitching" all the time I'm like then stop giving me so much to bitch about!!!! I just want a partner that'll talk with me when there's a problem, or chat with me about nothing! But he's so quiet! We got engaged this Christmas and we planned this pregnancy but sometimes I'm so scared I'm in this all by myself and once the baby comes it'll be even worse and just end up making me hate him!!!