I feel like I can't do anything right. J tells me how great I'm doing and that I'm an amazing mom every day... so why do I feel like a complete failure every night?
Sooooo normal I feel the same way esp at night. Babies cry it's totally normal and I swear sometimes they cry for no reason! And sometimes it's inconsolable. It's still normal. Doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. It's trial and error. I always think I found a solution to crying lol but everything I've tried works sometimes, but not every time. We are doin ok. Idk if crying is your issue but that's what makes me feel like a failure like I can't figure out why my baby is crying. Sometimes they just cry
Don't be too hard on yourself - you are doing great! And you just feel like this because of the lack of sleep and so many new things and changes are happening ... give yourself a little break and see how much you are doing and that you are doing great!