Planned C-section day is coming (March 31st 2017).... feeling scared and worried.... any way to calm myself down? I had a bad experience with the first pregnancy 🤰. I was first induced, had my waters broken on the second day, and on the third day I pushed. Little one got stuck so they needed to do an emergency c section. On the 3rd day they discharged me and on the morning of the 4th day I had a high temperature. I was re-admitted in the hospital and they had to reopen my c-section wound, because I got sepsis and a wound infection (without anesthesia), and they only gave me morphine and lidocaine, but I felt the whole thing... I had 11 people holding me down to open the wound up. I was on antibiotics and I had a wound vac with a 4 inch deep wound which had to be changed 4 times while I was in the hospital and once while I was taken back home. I was 18 days in the hospital..... and I waited 2 months for the wound to close from inside out..... yet again I am pregnant and going to have a c section.... so yea.... any way to calm myself down and hope for the best the second time around??? Has anyone had this experience with their first and with the second was ok? Do you think the likelihood of it happening again is less now that it's a planned c section? And I will be doing spinal this time instead of epidural. What's the chance of me getting paralyzed I wonder... totally freaking out here!