Feeling so frustrated. My friends baby shower is this next weekend and she's been excited for me to…

Feeling so frustrated. My friends baby shower is this next weekend and she's been excited for me to bring my daughter and today all of a sudden just tells me my daughter isn't welcome at the shower. She's 5 months old... I bought a big gift for her just to have her tell me 6 days away that I can't bring my baby.