I hate when my bfs mom makes me feel bad.. Today I finally get asked to go out with my parents(they…

I hate when my bfs mom makes me feel bad.. Today I finally get asked to go out with my parents(they never really ask since I have the girls) and my bf has been in the hospital because he fell and hit his head(I couldn't go since I have no car nor money for uber js) he finally got out today and they were going to pick me up but I'm with my family and she's all like he wants to see you and the girls and he needs your help.. I hate it she knows I care about him a lot and I love him but I never get out of the house I need a little bit of time out. does it make me a bad person for not going to see him and let him see the girls?? I usually go every weekend