Need some unbiased advice... So last night my husband came home from work with his buddies, well they decided to drink…
Need some unbiased advice...
So last night my husband came home from work with his buddies, well they decided to drink from 930pm to 2am... I'm asleep when he comes in. He wakes me up with him talking to me, hasn't showered after working and afterwards being by the fire and drinking so he was nauseating me. I had to sleep in the living room. He wakes me up at 7am asking if I want to go to his job site today, um no! He leaves now I go to sleep in our bedroom... he calls at 10am asking for our oldest, but I was still in my room so I tell him I think she's still asleep. I get up to ask her what he wanted but she wasn't in her room, she was outside picking up the drunken idiots beer bottles and trash... and her chip bag! Well I called him to tell him I couldn't believe he had her picking that up! His response was that he was gonna pay her. Am I wrong for being upset that he has his teenage daughter picking up after him?
Nickel ·
Мама сына (1 год)
My parents use to make us do things like that but only has a punishment @lola-tx, but I'd honestly be super annoyed that he was too intoxicated to pick up his own trash 😏 I'm sorry you're dealing with this today!
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I'd be annoyed him and his grown as friends didn't pick up after themselves, set a better example dude
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
Definitely not I'd be pissed too!
Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@mommyof1boyy, @twinpeanut, @nessairieray, being that I'm a little emotional lately I needed to know, thank you for taking time to read my paragraph. I honestly think it's time for me to leave, we were separated most of 2016 we started having sex in the beginning of November and I moved back in after thanksgiving and finding out I was pregnant 3 days after Christmas... he started drinking and he smokes weed everyday. Two weeks ago he came home drunk and abused me physically... said it was the alcohol and that he wouldn't drink anymore. I believed him because he has never really been a drinker and 2 weeks later he's drinking. I want to think he's purposely trying to sabotage this relationship... idk
Anna Randolph·
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@lola-tx, I'm so sorry you're going through that!! It's completely your decision but I would not be putting up with that behavior
Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@annaerandolph, I know and agree... I hang in to hope but he'll never change
Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@annaerandolph, thank you
Karen·
Мама сына-младенца
I would be unsettled by that too. If he is gonna drink, he should take care of his mess. Just because he has offered to pay her is irrelevant.