Pretty hurt right now. So my husband is not the father of the baby I'm pregnant with. We were…

I've been having second thoughts about placing the baby for adoption. @fasciamom,

Girl even if you decided to give your baby for adoption why would you stay with someone like him?

I'm sorry I have no idea how your situation is but i wish you could see your value and actually be with someone that actually LOVES you!

But you need to love yourself first so that you can keep your eyes opened to a better man! Why settle for him?

Why settle for someone that only cares for him!!

I swear you can find someone better it just takes time of being alone for a while and wait for a better person!

And in that process maybe you can even keep your coming up baby!!!

You have a lot to think!!

But just be strong!!!

A real men wouldn't put you through this!!!

@beebaby, no I had decided it before we even considered getting back together and even for when I had talked about it with him he told he would be there for me no matter what I decided and then it turns out to this

Personally, I'd choose my child. Just because I'd always wonder what my life would be like with the baby. Always would wonder what they're doing every holiday. And I'd be missing see part of me grow up.. I wouldn't be able to do it.

He's come around a lot more to the whole idea of me keeping her, He felt bad for what he said and apologized for it.. he was just really surprised that I was having second thoughts.. were both 20 and still learning everything and he doesn't really understand how much it's takes of a person to choose something like adoption and what goes through your mind as a mom. But yes, if he didn't change what he said then I'd definitely choose my daughter over anyone. @alimtz0510,

@babykinzliee2k16, I'm 18 rn and my husband is 26. Im 6 months pregnant with our first baby girl. I am married tho. And it's my first pregnancy and it's with my husband of course but if I were in your situation I know my husband would understand. Especially if you guys were separated for a while. You didn't technically do anything wrong. I just wouldn't be able to give up my baby. That's like the only blind date where you know you'll meet the love of your life ❤

Exactly.. when my husband met we literally knew each other maybe a month and a half before we got married, so we definitely jumped into things pretty fast, but he knew marring me I as already 8 months pregnant and that her father is what he is and picks and chooses when to be in her life 🙄 and my husband has raised her likes his own... I think it was more of that fact he wants a baby with me and now he's back with me and I'm pregnant again and she's not his and i know it's upsetting and hurts him, but he has never walked away from my oldest daughter and she knows that's her daddy @alimtz0510,

@babykinzliee2k16, yeah I get you. It's a touchy subject. Something similar almost happened to me. It was like my second or third time ever having sex and it was with another guy before me and my husband started talking. Well i didn't get my period for like 3 weeks when I was supposed to have it a week after we had sex. Well I told the guy and he said he didn't want anything to do with the baby if I was. Well at that point me and my husband had just started talking and getting to know each other more on a boyfriend/girlfriend level. And I told him. He said he felt weird that he'd be raising another guys child but that because he liked me, he would. And thankfully I got my period eventually and now we're married ☺ and I'm pregnant with our first baby.

@alimtz0510, well I'm glad everything worked out for you ❤️ everything definitely happens for a reason I believe

@babykinzliee2k16, yes I agree ❤ and if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here ☺

Same to you girl!! @alimtz0510,