Need Advice: I'm not sure if it's my hormones or what. But for a few months I haven't been able to…
Need Advice: I'm not sure if it's my hormones or what. But for a few months I haven't been able to sleep, I'm always in pain but try to make sure to keep up with the house and laundry. And finally I find out what is wrong with me because the pain is getting worse as the days go on. Well lastnight I got to the hospital my husband and I don't leave there till 230 in the morning. Well my mil has the kids and I called this morning and told her thank you for watching them but she can send them home if they want to come home (she lives in the house next to us) she says ok. Well my husband called me and told me he talk to his mom and she is so worried about him because she knows he is so tired and has to work. She said I'm not worried about Anna (which is me) because she can lay down I'm more worried about you because you can't. Now for some reason that pissed me off. I think it made me mad because it's like no I can not just lay down I take care of this house, do laundry, cook dinner, get the kids homework done, get them ready for bed and sometimes I have to go to the store for you because you sleep all day and don't feel like going so you call me to go. So I have to bring my kids out to go to the store for you when you are more than capable to go yourself. I don't know I just feel a certain way about that comment and I'm not sure if it's my hormones that is making me upset about it or do I really have a reason to be upset?
Sorry for the rant
Becca S.·
Hormones could be making it more intense, but that seems like a legit thing to be upset about to me. Everything OK?
Anna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Thank you for your advice @august2017babe, everything is ok I just found out last week that I have spd and my pelvic bone is separating and my hips are separating too. So for a long time now I have been just dealing with the pain and trying my hardest to keep up with everything on top of not getting a decent night sleep. And that comment just pissed me of because while I was going through that I felt like everyone just looked at me like oh she is fine she will get over it. And my husband doesn't get his goodnight sleep for one night it's like omg I'm so worried about you son blah blah blah. Honestly I don't feel bad because for 11 years their are times that I'm up doing laundry till 3 in the morning and I have to get up early too. I also don't feel bad because it's like ok he can stay up go to the bar and drink till 3am and he yes has a hang over but no one is like omg I'm so worried because he has to work and he can't lay down. Ugh I'm so frustrated and just want to cry!!! And me wanting to cry makes me think I'm being childish and overreacting on this whole thing
Becca S.·
You're welcome. Especially when you're the mother of her grandkids and are pregnant with another of her grandkids and help her do things she can do herself, you'd think she'd have more compassion and concern about you. I'd be pissed and hurt too. What you feel is what you feel, try not to be hard on yourself for it. Can they do anything to help with the condition? Or not until after delivery? *hugs*
Anna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I am doing physical therapy to strengthen my muscles and last night is was so bad I couldn't do it anymore they gave me a numbing shot in my pelvic bone so I could walk without being in so much pain. Hopefully after I have baby everything will go back to normal. I think I will still have to do physical therapy after he is born though just to get it back to normal. But as for the pain I should feel better after having him.
Anna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@august2017babe,
Becca S.·
I hope so. Good luck, momma!