These are all really good ideas to consider. I appreciate it. I'm not just worry about the bond but it took alot for me to continue feeding and I don't want to go backwards. When I was little I was raped and molested and it was hard to feed her because it would trigger something that made me really uncomfortable and feel gross. I'd cry sometimes while eating. It's not as bad as it was before but it was the same feeding my first girl and my guy really understanding and there are times I have triggers with him but I don't want that to be the reason I stop feeding. Something else being taken from me. I'm also afraid I'll have to start over with that horrible feeling all over. I don't cry anymore and it isn't bad all the time. Some days it's just beautiful and feels normal

My son eats baby food and still nurses a lot. Especially before he goes to sleep. That's when we bond

How about trying her to eat stage 1 foods right now .. maybe 1 a day ? Than continue to breastfeed her for the rest of the day just to see how she reacts .. test the waters .