WEIGHT GAIN RANT I've really been struggling with my weight and self image lately. When I first met…
WEIGHT GAIN RANT
I've really been struggling with my weight and self image lately. When I first met my boyfriend I was a size 5 working in a gym. I've mentioned before that he's a personal trainer, and fitness was something that we'd had in common. When we started dating I started gaining, probably went from 145 to 175. I still looked all right but then I got pregnant with Zaire and bloated up to 215 before delivery. That was last April. Since then I'd gone back down to 176 in October and found out I was pregnant with baby #2. Currently I'm 188. Everyone thinks I'm crazy because I haven't gained an insane amount of weight yet, but I feel so drastically different from a few years ago. I've also lost my passion for fitness. I just don't know how to motivate myself 😫 I'm hoping after I have this baby I'll shed some weight and be more active. I just want to be that cute and active woman my boyfriend first met. He thinks I'm crazy and says he loves me anyways. So frustrating!
Ok I'm done lol ☺
LaSasha Fowler·
Мама троих детей
I understand. Don't beat yourself up. I was 125 before I got pregnant with my first now 8 months after my second I'm still at my postpartum weight which is 193. It's rough & it'll take time to get back in shape but it'll be okay.
Sara·
You need to love yourself the way you are, skinny, fat, in between...
Pregnancy changes a lot, or sometimes for lucky women , nothing. I use to be skinny as hell before my first son and do size 2 something like that, trust me now I'm waiting baby #3 and i do size 12 i feel fat sometimes but honestly f**ck it! My husband still love me as i am and I'm pretty comfortable with it. But of course i will motivate myself to lose a lil bit later. What i mean is, try to love yourself as you are you still beautiful.
💗Marcy👑·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
honestly I started working out with my pregnancys when I can n I feel soo much more positive ....n recovery is faster ...I recommend if you dont already.
naturally your going to gain weight being pregnant so dont be hard on yourself or focus on scale just focus on being positive n healthy n feeling like you. I was 109 now 135 but I feel great ..ever since I got out of my rut. Good luck. if you ever need to talk or motivation I'm here .
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I know exactly how you feel. I'm a curvy girl, I've always had big thighs, wide hips and a big butt, but was always small on my upper body. Since having my first via c-section, I do have a belly. I lost almost all of the pregnancy weight after giving birth but shortly after, I developed a brain tumor that caused me to gain 50lbs and most of it on my mid section. I removed the tumor and got pregnant about a year and a half later, I'm currently 195. I'm not gonna lie, all I think about is finally getting back into shape. But honestly, your health and the well being of your kids is more important. Definitely stay active, take the kids to the park and on walks, eat healthy and you'll see a huge difference in your mood and body. Good luck, take it easy and enjoy the process.
Celine·
I understand how you feel... everyone thinks I'm crazy and tells me I don't need to lose weight but when I started dating my husband I was 15 and only weighed 90 pounds... now I don't want to be that skinny again I was too skinny but when I got pregnant with my first daughter I gained 50 pounds but got back down to 110.... since then I've had another child and pregnant with my 3rd and I currently weigh 160..... my husband acts as if he doesn't mind (he's gained some weight too) but there's always that thought that I'm so much bigger than I was when we started dating.... after I have this baby I want to get back down to around 115.... is all about how you feel comfortable for your self..... many people tell me 115 is too small but that's the weight I feel comfortable
Jade·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (27 нед.)
@ty_no_de_love @yudith93 @lovinmommy51 @futuremrs.holbert @mluvs7 Thank you all for your stories and words of encouragement! Being a mom takes such a toll on us in so many different ways, but its so nice to know there are other mommies going through the same thing and still uplifting others! Needed this! ❤
Jade·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (27 нед.)
@mimprince I definitely overindulge too! It's so hard because I watch my boyfriend eat anything he wants & it gets depressing. I've been trying to cut all sugary junk out of my diet but this whole pregnancy I've craved Pepsi 😂
Sara·
Any time 😄. Trust me I'm always saying to my husband that i look like a Pankake and this kid says he gonna put some sirop on me to taste better lmaooo. As long your man keeps loving you the way you are, you will find some motivation to love yourself
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Anytime love!! That's why we're here! ❤️
LaSasha Fowler·
Мама троих детей
You're are welcome Queen ❤👑 @jademarie_x0
babygirl1·
Oh girl I feel you I was 126 pre prego and now I'm 160 I feel like an over blown balloon 😒😩