I seriously need to get back to eating right and exercising every day. I seriously feel fat and not attractive at all anymore since getting pregnant and having my son. Don't get me wrong, I did what I had to do for my son to be born healthy and with the best possible chance. My dr was happy with my weight gain and I tried to stay active through my pregnancy. The first 4 months I barely gained anything because I was so sick. Then I felt better for about a month and a half or 2 but then my preeclampsia got progressively worse and I couldn't exercise at all and was on modified bed rest so I started losing weight so my dr told my fiancé to just get me whatever to help me gain as long as it was low sodium and I drank plenty of water. By the end of my pregnancy I had gained 34 pounds which was about average and where my dr wanted me to be. But I had a c section with my son so I couldn't even walk with my son in his stroller for 8 weeks after and since then it's like my old eating and exercising habits have gone right out the window. I make excuses about not having time but I think I just feel guilty for taking even an hour for myself to go to the gym because it feels like I'm stealing an hour from my son after I work all day and take that time away from him too. Money is tight and it makes it hard to get healthier grocery options too. Anyone else feel this way or have advice? It sucks my wedding is literally 6 months from today and I don't even know if my dress will even fit anymore at this point.