My SO has repeatedly lied to me about where he's at this week. He'd tell me he's working al these double shifts and then I find out he's out partying with his brother. It's the lying that hurts the most and the feeling like he doesn't want to be around me when he gets off. Doesn't call either like I'm his mom he's hiding from or something.
I talked to him and he said he didn't see the problem changing plans last minute and it was ok because we was just hanging out with him brother. I said it's the point that you choose not to tell me you got off work or where you were and I was hurt he didn't want to talk to me.