So my in laws try to trick my husband by telling him that his brother was going to go to the beach…

So my in laws try to trick my husband by telling him that his brother was going to go to the beach with them and ask if we were going to come My husband doesnt really get to see his brother and then they said he was not coming after we said we cant go it piss me off they do that to him and they said they did not know that we are going to throw our daughter a party for her birthday why wouldn't we?? Ugh I just cant stand them and they were asking if they can take our daughter to the beach first of she does not see them alot and last time she freaked out and would not even let me leave her with my mom who she see everyday and would not sleep in her room. I dont know why they dont come down to see her they always want us to come see them and wont come down or when they do they have us meet them at there friends house and they dont spend time with her and then they get mad about that and make it our fault. That and they keep calling my husband and bit me any more who has the girls all day long and try to make plans abd say they talked to me and they didnt so my husband get mad and thinks i am changing plans or he is the middle man it just not right i cant sand them now.