I feel like my best friend is replacing me. I don't think she's doing it on purpose but I'm still…

Have you brought it up to her? Maybe she thinks pulling away will make you leaving easier. @jess007

@august2017babe, not yet. That's what I'm thinking is happening too. I doubt she even realizes it. I know she loves me and everything so I didn't know if I should leave it be or talk to her about it. She was low key mad for a minute when I told her we were moving but she knows and understands that I have no control over when/where we are moving. I understand pulling away because I'm leaving and idk if I should talk to her or just let her pull away for a bit?

If it was me, I'd probably talk to her about it because you only have so much time when you're together in person. Is your partner in the military or the move is for his job and you don't have a say in when/where you move? (Sorry, I can be nosey and curious.) Nowadays, there are plenty of ways to stay in contact. Video chatting isn't the same as being there in person, but it's the next best thing. Good luck with everything. @jess007

@august2017babe, yeah my husband is navy. Our husbands were in boot camp together and by luck of the draw we ended up at the same place twice. Now we are getting separated for the first time in 5 years so it's hard. We hopefully have dinner plans some time next week so I'll talk to her then.

Good luck. Hopefully you're able to make the most of the time you two have together. @jess007