I know I post a lot of this crap lately but... Here I was about 5 minutes ago eating my oatmeal scrolling through…

*hugs* @missjess

@missjess he's in for a big surprise in court. What made you get with him at first, and how long where you guys together if you dont mind me asking of course? It's just so crazy how he behaves, makes me wonder if he could have some kind of a multiple personality disorder.

He made himself seem like mister perfect at first. And really it was great with him that first month or so and then his daughters came for Christmas and he changed and made them his excuse and then I found out I was pregnant right after Christmas and it just went down hill from there. He's shown his true colors! I moved there in May and not even two weeks later I wanted to move back home! And he never cared about the baby when I was pregnant and he doesn't now. He thinks cause he has a career and a house that he's going to get custody of my son! @simplyshantell,

He's very narcisstic and mentally and psychologically abusive. @simplyshantell,

He's not going to get custody because he has a career and a house, that just means he's got money to pay YOU. You're the mother, you take good care of your son and have been the only one there for him since he was born. No judge would take that away from you. He is definitely a narcissist, and a control freak. It makes me wonder, why if he doesn't care about your son does he care so much about his daughters? He's going to regret his actions when your son gets older.

Exactly and I gave him a break on support when I didn't have to cause he was crying to the judge he pays all the travel fair for his daughters. Has nothing to do with my son, he's the one that agreed to that In his divorce! 🙄 he has an unhealthy obsession with his daughters! He even sleeps with them every night when they are here. Like he just goes to bed with them. When I was pregnant he'd look at clothes in the girls section to buy but didn't step foot in the baby section. He never even talked of the baby. But he saids I just assume he doesn't care..., his actions speak volumes! He hasn't been around for the baby but blames me that I took him away from him. He hasn't helped out at all in any way but now he wants my son cause he has to pay me? He's disgusting. It's money taken away from his daughters !@simplyshantell,

That's so fucked up, there aren't even words to describe such an atrocity, really. I bet if it was a girl he might have given more of a shit. He's sick in the head. Just be glad you won't have to deal with living with him and being with him. One day, he's going to regret being such a bastard and when your son is old enough to realize what a waste of space that "man" is hes going to regret it. Him sleeping with them is fucking weird since they are already older, that's concerning. Don't worry though, the sooner you go to court the sooner this will all end, the sooner you can rid him of your life. I feel bad for his daughters, thankfully not for your son. Be glad he's distanced..

It is fucked up! He's sick in the head! I hope I get sole custody of my son forever. I'm bringing all that shit up to the judge you better believe it. They will see right through him anyway. And then be alarmed that he's so close to his girls in a sick way and probably investigate it! My son will know one day what a piece of shit he is. I feel bad for them to cause he's neglectful of them as well. He just buys there love. @simplyshantell,

Just make sure the judge knows that he hasn't been there for your son not a day in his life. The same thing you post on here, take screen shots of messages and gather anything you can to prove that he really doesn't care, and if you make that point clear I think you will get custody. Also, of course tell them you breastfeed. Your son only knows you, and sure, he is 6 months old and impressionable, but you believe that that man is sick, has a mental disorder, and an unhealthy relationship with his daughters and you wouldn't trust him for even a minute alone with your son! That he has been neglectful when you decided to trust him for a day but that you never want to make that mistake again! @missjess I wonder what the mother of the girls thinks of his unhealthy obsession, or if she even knows?

He's been here 11 times, and he copy and pastes the same message to me every day asking how he is to make him self look good on paper. Half the time he texts me before the day even begins at like 5am-9am but he never go les I'm depth about really seeing how he is and when I have in the past just told him out of the kindness of my heart he barely saids anything. He's never once asked for a picture of the baby and I've again sent them to him before out of being nice I didn't have too. I don't trust him at all with my son after his last two visits with him. And idk if his ex gets it or just sees him as a loving father that had his daughters taken away. But I see through it just based on living there. He calls them every night without fail, she has told him not to because a lot of the times the girls don't want to talk to him but he's like no I want to talk to them everyday! He's even said that when they are older he won't let them fly up here alone cause he doesn't ever want them to feel abandoned... But it's ok to have my son abandoned. I've fought with him about my son being second to his daughters but of course I'm alwAys wrong. But that's ok I don't want him having so weird obsession with my son either! Maybe it is because he's a boy or just cause he never really wanted him to begin with. Said he had no money for a baby. He's also a pathological liar. But I can't wait for it to all be over and I can laugh at him while I get my son and he's made out to be a joke. @simplyshantell,

I know it's hard but I wouldn't be distraught over the fact that he is neglectful when it comes to your son. It sounds like a gift in disguise, because it sounds like he's sick in the head. A person who can't love and appreciate their child, especially when he's so little, someone who has had children before and knows how quickly time passes, is just sick. So he says he can't afford a baby, yet says he's going to get custody because he's got a good career?? He's so ego driven. It's all just a competition to him. He's filled with hate. The best thing to do is keep your distance and after court is settled slowly start detoxifying your life of him. @missjess

Yeah the less I have to see if him. I just feel bad for my son but he's better off. He blames me for never being around cause I moved 3 hours away and broke up our family 🙄 it's very sick. He's very sick and twisted. He's doing all this out of hate that he's not in control anymore and I'm not longer backing down to him and letting him manipulate me. Guy makes 95 grand a year he's full of shit he doesn't have money. He just doesn't want it taken away from his daughters! And I'm going too! Idk if he'll ever fully be out of my life but I'm in control now!! And I'm not letting him get any satisfaction. I will one day find a good decent man who will love and love my son and treat him and I better than he ever did!@simplyshantell,

Lol.. 95k can be gone in no time if he's got an accumulation of bills and bad spending habits, so if he really is broke he's going to have to learn how to finance his money, because they will make him pay a specific percentage based off of his income. But its like you said.. pathological liar. Unless he spends a shit ton on the girls.. because he's sick like that. Either way he will have to pay to help support his son, the fact that he would want custody in order to avoid child support is ridiculous. He would end up paying more if he had custody. If he's ego driven he'd want to put him in a private school, in sports etc etc. He doesn't care enough though, he's just out for power. He won't win that way.

He spends it all on his daughters! Travel expenses back and forth to Texas, takes them

On spring break vacation every year, takes them all over during the summer. I gave the guy a break for child support and he still turns around and applies for full custody immediately after! That's a fucked up thing to do! And that's what I said he's trying to avoid 600 a month when if he had him he'd have to spend way more than that! And he has to pay me more than his ex wife for his daughters so he doesn't like that either that Andrew gets more than them when in his eyes his daughters need far more than the baby! 🙄 but he still gives her all kinds of money when she asks! He's her personal atm. But you're right he is out for power though, but he's powerless in that court room. And he doesn't like it. He started this war and I'm ready to fight to the death and he's not getting my son! He's a sick twisted individual and I'll never let that happen. He saids he's doing it for the best interest of Andrew, but he's doing it for his own selfish sick ways. And I truly hope a judge sees right through him and doesn't award him jack and tells him he's wrong! But it won't even matter cause he's never wrong in his own head regardless of who tells him. @simplyshantell,

It just sounds like he hates you. God, he's so fucking gross in his head. He needs to be handed a rope to save him from that high ass ladder he's on in the clouds right now, he needs to come back down to earth. He's full of himself. He probably IS broke if he spends that much money on vacations, and flights... sad part is, he can afford 600 a month easy and if not, he will have to cut back on spending. It would be great if you had the mother of the girls backing you up, if you both stood against him. Her backing up the statements about how he sickishly is obsessed with the girls and you about how he's neglectful and ego driven.

He would lose his rights to see the girls and andrew, and he would be miserable. Lol. I feel like we are talking about a TV villain or something losing his powers. Haha. I'm pretty sure he already is miserable with himself, but that would just top it off.

He has no real reason to hate me. It's his fault we ended its his fault we are in this situation. He has no one to blame but himself but God forbid he take the fault in anything ever. And he probably is broke cause of them but that's his own damn problem. He does need a ladder off his high and mighty! Then try's to say I'm on a high horse! Everything he is he try's to say I am. He's very full of himself and on a huge power trip. Idk his ex wife and I've never talked to her so I have no way of getting her on my side or just to compare notes on this douche. I'm hoping he does lose all his rights to all his children he's probably kill me literally for taking his precious daughters away from him. I think that's just it he's just a miserable man and he'll be even more miserable after all this shit hits the fan! @simplyshantell,