I don't know how to nicely tell my boyfriend we will NOT be raising our daughter the way he raises his other kids. They do whatever whenever. And all he does is make fake threats and wonders why they're so bad and don't listen.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I don't have a baby boy. I would like to know personally how do you moms feel about people treating there sons like girls as in taking them to nail salons and getting pampered ect.... I think it's important for ladies to remember your not raising a little boy. At the end of the day your raising a man. If I have a son I just want to raise him to be the best man he can be. I won't treat him to the same things I would my daughter and vice versa.😕
Don't y'all think it's stupid for a man to for get that his girlfriend make him some food and only he got do is come get it and he don't have nun to eat at his house and that he cheating ?
So bd decided he wanted to be there for our unborn child because he doesn't want to be a "fucked up father" well it's to late for that ! & I decided to raise my kids on my own I don't need him especially if he has nothing going for himself