I was right and went with my gut and just went were he was and it a good thing I did or he would not be here with me today! He is back on the right track and hopefully it for Good he says it is and I have faith in him!!! My husband was clean for 10 years before he relapse and I know he can do it it is just a struggle everyday for someone with an addition but with his family by his side he will make it... Thanks for the help

Surprise him and ask him to prove it...pee in a cup. If he is not using then has nothing to worry about. Problem solved. Sorry about your situation.

That's the somethings I told him and he promises he not doing and thing and says he has everything to loss and will never let that happen so let's just hope he being truthfully... Thank u so much for committing I feel like I'm so alone in this battle and have no one to talk to about bc then all my family judge him and I hate that

I agree trust your instincts.... your sanity is far more important than having a toxic person around... believe me i feel so much better

@crystalashby86 lets hope when he visits his friend living in a motel something clicks in his brain like oh shit i better not dare touch anything or ill be next door living in a motel w no wife and no kids...

Thank u mine was clean for like 5 years and then relapse and has now been clean for only like 1 month and he's just acting so dam wired today and this friend he's hang with lives in a hotel bc his wife kicked him out till he gets his life together and it at least 30 mins from are house and it's just something is not right

i 've gone thru plenty with my man hes been clean 1 yr and half. I tell him he has more to lose than me. If he chooses the bs.But.trust your instincts..you'll know if he's using again..I've noticed after they stop they soon get new habits.gambling bs. Wish u well