I feel for my husband sometimes.

I feel for my husband sometimes.

He is a sahd and a care taker for my mother that has Alzheimers and an awesome one at thAt... occasionally he will work on my dAys off if the guy he works with has work, his mom came in town for our youngest birthday and he had asked her stay a week hoping this guy would have work... last week he didn't, but cAlled yesterday ask in if he could work this week. He asked his mom to stay another week (She is retired) and at first said yes so he told the guy he was available all week, and the guy told him to be there Monday morning.. this morning his mom told him she wasnt go in to stay now because our youngest was getting on her nerves. And asked him why could my mother (who is in the middle stages of Alzheimer's) couldn't help for a couple hours a day.. so now he has to call and tell him nevermind.. He wants time to himself but when I tell.him to go do something we are either short on money or days he doesnt have any friends and doesnt want to go out by himself.

sometime I get worried he will get overwhelmed and runaway.. I know he won't but still a legitimate fear. And then will make comments like I can't ask you to quit your job because you are working torward something great.

I love thAt he is the man he is, really wish we had someone that wanted to watch our kids, even for a night.