My man and I have such different parenting styles and sometimes I can't stand the way he is towards…

My man and I have such different parenting styles and sometimes I can't stand the way he is towards my kids. I'm grateful for the help and he has a right to his own feelings too.. so saying something doesn't help. He's just so much gruffer and stricter than me, but some people have said that's what these kids need. We are about to have a baby together and I'm worried it's going to ruin our relationship.