At my birth class trying to relax and my bf calls me to break up with me saying he think he needs a break after we…
At my birth class trying to relax and my bf calls me to break up with me saying he think he needs a break after we talked last week about working together to make our relationship better, I told him make sure he sticks by his decision, the amount of shit he put me through since I got pregnant leaving me on my own for 4 months in my pregnancy while he smoked and drink and pretend like me and the baby didn't exist , him lying to me constantly ,him stressing me out til my stomach hurt so bad I had to go to the hospital, him allowing some bitch to send him naked pics for months ,he's the reason i lost my job yet I forgave him for everything and he decides to leave because I ask him to be more supportive and passionate with me , he doesn't want to improve our relationship. Well I hope he sticks by it , I'm tired of the back and forth, I realized I wasted 3 years with someone who never knew what he wanted. This is just another trial and I will do whatever I have to for my son without him and someday I'll find someone who is really worth all the love and loyalty I have to give. This pain will pass. All that matters is me and my boy.
Christina Esposito·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Keep your head up. I know what you're going through all to well
Jess·
Stay strong girl! You are better off without him. I've gone through a similar situation and the best thing i ever did was get out of there before my son was born! You got this. It may seem tough and you may hurt but you'll be ok.
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Sounds like your better off. Good luck
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (22 нед.)
Sounds to me like he is doing you a favor!
Tamara Hector·
В ожидании первенца
Thank you ladies .oll get through this
RoyalMommy·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет)
You are very strong from what I see and it's his lost!
Tamara Hector·
В ожидании первенца
Thank you @royalmommy
Krisilynn Gat👑·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm going through a similar thing, boo. My ex and I were together 3 years and we planned for our son. When he was 9 months old he decided the feeling wasn't there anymore and wanted us to go our separate ways. Swore up and down that there was no one else and it'd be a while before he would move on. It's been almost 4 months now and he has a new girlfriend and he went against my wishes and has let her be around my son and I've yet to meet her. Come to find out..he was talking to her the last few weeks we were together...you will get through this. You will come out the stronger woman that you never thought you could be. It's hard. But in the end, you will be such a great mother to your sweet baby. And you'll find someone who will love you and your baby the way you both deserve to be loved. I've learned that. Although I'm not with someone. That's my mindset for when the day comes. 😘
Tamara Hector·
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@xinked.flawless thank you for that I needed it. I just feel so overwhelmed with everything that is going on and him and his drama makes it 20x worse because I expect him to be there for me through everything and he's here playing these kiddie games. I'm trying to build a future that's good for my son because financially I'm in a bad place right now and that's so frustrating because I want to be able to work and provide for myself and I can't rely on him for any help .
Krisilynn Gat👑·
Мама сына-младенца
@mamabear22 I completely know how that goes. And it's the same here financially, I'm struggling. But at the end of the day I keep going. For my son. And I know you will too, mama! It's rough. But one day you'll look back and realize this...is what built you.
Tamara Hector·
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@xinked.flawless . you're absolutely right and I'm not going allow him to take over my life with drama and stress , my son is all that matters . thank you so much. *hugs*
Krisilynn Gat👑·
Мама сына-младенца
@mamabear22 anytime boo! Anytime you need someone to talk to, hit me up! Being a single momma is hard. I can't imagine what it's like to have to do it while pregnant. But you got this!
Tamara Hector·
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@xinked.flawless . thank you . I def will :)