Hair falling out in patches 😫😫😢😢 I'm going to be bald bout time I give birth. Should I do a big chop again?

You have dead ends?

Well I did a big chop almost two years ago and haven't touched it since so I believe I do

@junesmommy_15,

No relaxer right?Yeah I think it's the dead hair. When I trim my ends I trim a lot and my hair doesn't shed afterward and it grows so fast. I haven't had a relaxer in 3 years and all my natural hair grew out. I cut a lot of the relaxed hair off.

@junesmommy_15, Yeah I got a relaxer in December after 3 years of not having one. Can that be it?

Aw girl! That could be one thing. Why'd you go back?

I was getting frustrated with trying to train my hair and the shrinkage was so hard to manage sometimes

@junesmommy_15,

After you chop it off you gotta keep it mostiurzed and up in protective styles im sure you know that but relaxers and perms they honestly mess up the ph balance of your hair . It strips the natural pattern. I learned the hard way.

@azaleasmommy, yeah I think I was going through a mood swing lol I was just like f everything I'm going to do it. After 3 years of no relaxer and almost 2 years since a big chop. Smh. Now I have to do it all over. But they said once you have a baby your hair grows back way faster so I'm going to do chop it again 💔

O no...ive been natural about 3 years I can help with pointers. I read you go a relaxer and that may be why your hair is falling out like that. Keep moisturizing your hair and get some black castor oil.

I don't recall my hair growing really well when I had my son. The only time I notice my hair growth is after I've taken down braids or after I've trimmed my ends. When I do protective styles I use African Shea Butter. It moisturizes great.

@nena901, I keep hearing about castor oil I'm going to get some

@shababy there is two different ones...black castor oil and regular castor oil...The black is thicker and better. I mix it with Olive oil to thin it