Why are we constantly fighting? Are we not happy anymore? Does he not feel like we are important…
Why are we constantly fighting? Are we not happy anymore? Does he not feel like we are important enough? Do I feel like griping is easier than talking? Why don't we talk but get mad instead? We don't seem to be the same anymore and it breaks my heart. I get mad at small shit like him not fucking waking up after telling him to get his ass moving an hour ago. We treat each other like idiots. Idk what to do anymore. I feel like our marriage is shit and is just getting worse.
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
I would strongly suggest that you pick up the 5 love languages book... it talks about how each of us feel love, and when like a gas tank, our 'love tank' is empty, it's hard to show love to others... then it becomes a nasty cycle... where you drain each other's tanks instead of filling them! It changed how I see people, and how I interact with other, including my husband and child... I feel it helped me be a better daughter, sister, friend, wife and mother! It was that powerful! Maybe that will be the first step toward changing things with you and your husband! Hope it helps!
Sidika·
Мама двоих (младенец)
We have the love dare. We really need to start it. @dreamermom
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
@ssdj4, that is a good one also... but I think the 5love languages really put your mind in a place to start figuring out how you feel love and allows you to figure out how your spouse also feels love... then doing the Love Dare you will have some inside information on how to make them feel loved!
Sidika·
Мама двоих (младенец)
We know how we feel love. That isn't the issue. It's how to get back to making each other feel happy and loved. @dreamermom
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
@ssdj4, that's what it talks about... learning to fill the other persons tank... just trying to give you my opinion... you have to do what you think is best! Just figured another book might not hurt.