My SO has a female friend that he's known for a long timeee , that I know of . My problem is in his…
My SO has a female friend that he's known for a long timeee , that I know of . My problem is in his conversation with her he kinda gets personal in a way not sexual but saying he's down a little bit & life's hard right now& it's tough . Mind you he's the type that overly stresses himself over everything , but I don't know I feel like he if he feels stressed why can't he just vent to me being that we are together ?? Or am I over looking the issue . It almost seems like he vents to her often in the way that he speaks to her . Need opinions. Should I say something,
Franny🌻·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beebaby, right but if I say something he's gonna take it the wrong way like I'm saying he can't have friends.i just don't agree how he vents.
Alicia Hannah·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)
I agree with @beebaby, that is between you and him not him and his friend.
I would say something but that's just me personally. I have dealt with a lot more from my boyfriend in the 7 years we have been together. I always call him out on what he does behind my back.
Franny🌻·
Мама сына (1 год)
@payanddomsmommy0916, exactly how I feel !
Franny🌻·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beebaby, I only know a few things about her , her man left her n she has kids 🙄🙄🙄 lol
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
My question is would you feel the same way if the other person was a man? Just curious if it's more about venting, or venting to another female? I vent to my female friend all the time and he vents to his male friend... but I also sometimes talk to a really good guy friend(known him for 20 yrs), because they have a different perspective, and I know that my husband has a friend Heather at work that he talks to sometimes... I know my husband is not one that would ever cross a boundary... so I have no issues with it... and neither does he... with that said my ex, was a creeper, who knew no boundaries... so for him I was not okay with him venting to other females because he was opening a dangerous door... and ultimately, that's what ended our marriage.
Marilu·
He should never discuss his personal life with the opposite sex. Especially because she has something on you because you and him aren't communicating about it. He needs to vent to a guy friend or you. It's healthier for your relationship. It's just not right including another woman in something you don't include your own woman in.