Why doesn't my husband ask before he does things? I know he thinks he is helping but he just makes…

Why doesn't my husband ask before he does things? I know he thinks he is helping but he just makes more work for me. We already have one sit and stand stroller that a friend gave us that we were going sell in our garage sale, and now we have another one that his other friend gave us. So now I have 2 double strollers I do not want. The problem with them is I can't strap my toddler in. She will only be 18m when her brother is born and I want to still be able to contain her. I know there is no reason to cry but I've been trying so hard to keep everything running smoothly that little hiccups make me want to cry. Not to mention I'm freaking tired!