So anyone who knows me knows that I had an incredibly terrible pregnancy. Because of my pregnancy complications my doctors have recommended we don't have another baby. Yesterday my husband and I were laying in bed talking about Amelia and he says "I really really wish we could have another"... it just breaks my heart that we can't and that at 21 years old I'm done having kids. I just don't even feel good enough for my husband anymore..
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@txyogagirl, I agree that God has a plan but i also believe that He created Doctors and gave them knowledge. It would be irresponsible to get pregnant again knowing that it would put my life and my unborn baby's life at risk. I know that it's true but it doesn't make accepting it any easier.
@babybowers, no disrespect but ur dr is not God he has a plan for y'all don't listen to ur dr listen to ur heart. U know what's best for u bc it's your body I hate when doctors give advise like they know the future miracles happen. I pray 🙏🏻you can have another baby
@rooster, that was during my entire pregnancy, 9 long months of that... we are feeling so much better now, thank you!
Ohhhhhh are you oke now ??? This was during delivery or pregnancy? Hope you feeling better now. Sorry to hear the news.
@rooster, I had severe Hyperemesis Gravidarum. I needed to be on constant IVs and have a PICC line to give me nutrition fluids and medicine. I lost 18% of my body weight and was on bed rest the whole time. If I would get pregnant again my kidneys would fail and I would probably loose the baby...
@rmreed, I really wish he would consider surrogacy but he thinks it's "unnatural" @abbystudz, thank you! I needed to hear that, it's so tough to except...
Awww no! Don't feel that way!! I agree maybe a surrogate might be a good choice. But also really talk with him bc i doubt he thinks that your not good enough for him. In the end you guys have each other remember that!
Could also consider a surrogate! I'd love to be a surrogate someday exactly for this reason so maybe you could look into that in the future!
@amandahiatt33, we definitely want to adopt in the future
@babybowers, I understand I only say that bc family is a blessing and whatever suppose to happen will happen but good for u for being responsible