done having kids For those of you who are done having kids, did you just like know or what? We have two kids. Ds is going to be 4 on the 30th and I just had dd Feb 6th. My fiance says he doesn't want anymore. As of now, I don't feel like I want anymore either but I honestly don't know. I've always wanted three kids. We are still young (I'm 21, and he's 22) I'm no where near even thinking about having another at the moment. I really wanna get settled in life with good income and a nice home before having anymore if we do. So really, my question is, how do you know you're just done having kids?
*I'm just looking for others perspectives* I want to have my son circumcised, my husband who is uncircumcised does not want our son to get the procedure. I don't know much about the difference because I'm a woman, we don't have a religious preference to do it, just I'm just curious about what others plan on doing for their son!
❤ Getting to know you❤ Since our May group is growing strong and we have a lot of new mommies joining and sharing their bfp's...Thought it will be fun to get to know each other as we all share our pregnancy journey!
I don't know If I want another baby. Raptor is 6 months old in 1 week. If we have another I want them really close in age (would like to be pregnant around the time he's 1) but I really don't know if I want to lose my 1 on 1 time with raptor. I love how our relationship is now. I get to spend all of my time with him. Give him all of my attention. And love it just being me and him. He's my best little buddy. I would be perfectly happy with just him, being able to spoil and give him 100% of me. But I also don't know if I would regret not having another :( uhhhhg I really just don't know if I want to lose what me and raptor have! I know I would love another baby but... Am I making any sense?! Haha sorry for the ramble ladies just thinking out loud (or via baby bump;))
I really need to vent I really don't know what to do so as you might know I went to the hospital on Thursday to see why I was bleeding and having contractions well I found out I have an std please don't judge me I thought I was happily married we have been together for 8 years we have 3 boys and 1 on the wAy my question is what would you guys do in my situation I have my house but I don't work and well no one will hire me being preggo please help me I feel so alone I can't talk to anyone because I'm beyond embarrassed ......😞😕😢🙁
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Awww I'm so sorry. That would be a terrible thing to be told. What about adoption someday down the road?
Amanda Bowers·
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@amandahiatt33, we definitely want to adopt in the future
Rachel·
Could also consider a surrogate! I'd love to be a surrogate someday exactly for this reason so maybe you could look into that in the future!
Abby·
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Awww no! Don't feel that way!! I agree maybe a surrogate might be a good choice. But also really talk with him bc i doubt he thinks that your not good enough for him. In the end you guys have each other remember that!
rooster ·
Wat was so bad ? Wat happen
Amanda Bowers·
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@rmreed, I really wish he would consider surrogacy but he thinks it's "unnatural" @abbystudz, thank you! I needed to hear that, it's so tough to except...
Amanda Bowers·
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@rooster, I had severe Hyperemesis Gravidarum. I needed to be on constant IVs and have a PICC line to give me nutrition fluids and medicine. I lost 18% of my body weight and was on bed rest the whole time. If I would get pregnant again my kidneys would fail and I would probably loose the baby...
rooster ·
Ohhhhhh are you oke now ??? This was during delivery or pregnancy? Hope you feeling better now. Sorry to hear the news.
Amanda Bowers·
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@rooster, that was during my entire pregnancy, 9 long months of that... we are feeling so much better now, thank you!
Leah·
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@babybowers, no disrespect but ur dr is not God he has a plan for y'all don't listen to ur dr listen to ur heart. U know what's best for u bc it's your body I hate when doctors give advise like they know the future miracles happen. I pray 🙏🏻you can have another baby
Amanda Bowers·
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@txyogagirl, I agree that God has a plan but i also believe that He created Doctors and gave them knowledge. It would be irresponsible to get pregnant again knowing that it would put my life and my unborn baby's life at risk. I know that it's true but it doesn't make accepting it any easier.
Leah·
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@babybowers, I understand I only say that bc family is a blessing and whatever suppose to happen will happen but good for u for being responsible