Ok so I have a question if a girl who your husband was friends with like 15 years ago is friends…

Uuuummm probably not... just me 😒

I just was making sure I wasn't the only one Who thinks that that was a little rude and disrespectful on her part to even asked to ride with my husband and it just to me it was just wrong and then he said it would be OK but it was up to me I let it happen but honestly I feel like I shouldn't of let it happen @ashleym12.22.16, @beebaby,

I mean I was pretty much put on the spot and I didn't want to come off as a bitch but I should have because I just don't know I wait and ride with another guy on a four wheeler because I'm married and I know for a fact that that would bother my husband

Did she asked in front of you??@lae1988

I would have said no with a smile on my face..... letting her know I'm not trying to be rude but NO

I'd let them, and I'd ride with a male friend too. He has lots of friends who are girls, from long before we met. But I'm not the jealous type, nor is he, and I have no reason not to trust any of them.

@ashleym12.22.16, yes @nomaci, I have no reason not to trust my husband but I noticed she kinda kept brushing up against him and stuff seemed on purpose she came over because she is having problems in her relationship and I feel like she may have been trying to put some moves on him lol it's ok because I don't think I will be friends with her now she seems like she doesn't understand boundaries

Hmmm knowing my passive self id probably say yea sure! But that would bother the shit out of me on the inside.

Yeah, if she seems like you can't trust her, that she's testing boundaries, I'd probably say no. Have you mentioned to your husband what you suspect?

@avie, lol that's me right now I allowed it now it's bothering me @nomaci, yes I already spoke to him about it @beebaby, I doubt he would be ok with it he says he would but I doubt it lol

@beebaby, that's what I was trying to explain to him it's about respect I respect my husband enough not to even try to ride on bike or four wheeler with another guy or even ask that kind of question

Nope. My So knows better than to even ask lol

Hell no! @lae1988, I've learned the hard way... you have to speak up or risk getting stepped on.

@lola-tx, yes that's what I was worried about I mean I know he isn't gonna do anything but it was more of a respect thing for me she really had no business asking to ride with him she could have just did it herself

@millermommie, he didn't ask she asked me put me on the spot and he should have known better he should have said naw I think I will pass but he had a few beers and I guess he lost his mind for a min it ain't happening again she won't be back at my house lol