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So this might be a little personal for you ladies but any other mamas on here that went through…

So this might be a little personal for you ladies but any other mamas on here that went through verbal/emotional/physical abuse during pregnancy? I dealt with it my entire pregnancy (well before and after as well, but I got the strength and courage to leave) with my daughter's father and I've been reflecting on it lately. Any advice as to how not to let it scorn you/make you bitter. Been a really hard couple of days.

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alimtz0510

Alicia Gómez

В ожидании первенца

My ex boyfriend was like that. He was way jealous and controlling and always accused me of cheating on him. He made me give him all my social media info and he deleted every guy including my dad and my cousins and family because he "didn't trust them" it got so bad to a point where he yelled at me and told me I wasn't a woman I was still just a girl and that I was taking up too much space on earth and he said he only stayed with me for the sex and that I wouldn't be able to get another man to love me because no one like a "used" girl.

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mama_alia

alia

Мама дочки-младенца

Oh yes, my daughter's father turned physically an mental/verbally abusive to me once I got pregnant, he had me move states an live with him an he isolated me. I finally got the courage N strength to leaveat 8 month pregnant. my breaking point was when he choked me an threw me to the ground ...8 months preggo. he could've hurt the baby.so now I'm now home with my family. an i miss him from time to time... but he hasn't done a thing for me or my child...so It's hard to not be bitter. I just remind myself that he's the one suffering an loosing out not me

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alimtz0510

Alicia Gómez

В ожидании первенца

You just have to stick up for yourself and pull through and realize that you're worth so much more than what any guy says. I broke up with him 2 years ago and I met the love of my life on May 10 2015, which was Mother's Day 😂 and we got married April 30th of 2016 which was day of the children 😂 talk about not planning it huh haha and now we're expecting our first baby in July ❤ and he's the most supportive man. The love he has for our baby amazes me and we can't wait until it's here. The baby's already got him wrapped around it's finger 😍 just gotta have hope that there are still some good men out there who will value you. Never lower your standards.

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mama_alia

alia

Мама дочки-младенца

I totally understand where your coming from an how depressing this is... I feel like I'll never love another man or trust another man again.

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del_1508427792_kailey.gallentine

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@alimtz0510, well I'm so happy you found the love of your life 😍💕💕 that's amazing! And good for you to get the strength to leave and better your life. Just really hard and trying to do right by my daughter but also the right thing for myself. Gets really lonely when all my friends with kids are with their significant other while I left mine because of the abuse 👎🏻

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del_1508427792_kailey.gallentine

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@aliakr, WHAT?! That's wild!!! So unbelievable what some men do to women. Just baffles me. But good for you for getting yourself and your daughter out of there! Such a good mama! And I know it's really hard. I know we will find someone eventually and I'm not too worried about that. It's just hard to see everyone around me with their baby daddy and I had to leave mine for my daughter's sake

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mama_alia

alia

Мама дочки-младенца

Yeah that's so understandable I get so depressed an lonely... because I also see all the women with children an their significant other an their all happy as can be. I always wanted that..@kailey.gallentine

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starryheavens727

Ariel Strenk

Мама сына-младенца

I haven't dealt with abuse from a boyfriend but I was abused when I was younger for years.

The only way I was able to move was staying positive, knowing things can always get better. ❤️ you are so strong, you can do anything

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