Is it wrong of me to be irritated by this? It's my fiancées grandma but I don't like anyone saying I…

you have every right to be mad I would be too if someone tried to regulate my child

She could just be kidding. My family would set a date to come over so that way I wouldn't be surprised or already have something planned. It's helpful big time

My mother in law said I may never see the baby. Its not as she says though. This is the first grandbaby she will get to see and hold. She will want to spend all the time she can with the baby because she has been blocked from the other grandbabies. Her other 2 sons are cruel. They want money for visits. She is just so excited her and my father in law. They are near tears thinking about the baby. I am happy they will love the baby. My mom actually kicked me out while I was pregnant with my first baby. I was homeless with my fiance and we were near starvation. I lost my first baby.

Nah she just happy don't be irritated

Sounds like she's joking, a lot of my family says "my baby". Lol @ciciham