Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
opinions? I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Creeped out! A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped out and grossed out. Ugh. What would you do in this situation? I've reported this to my manager.
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
I'M being irrational?! ??? The father of my child (I'm 18 weeks pregnant) says I'm being irrational because I won't get an abortion. I'm almost 5 months and he's still trying to convince me to get one! What the f*ck?! He decided two weeks after I told him that he wants nothing to do with me or baby. I tried for maybe two weeks after that to speak to him but he kept treating me like sh*t so I stopped. I haven't done anything or tried talking to him since and he' avoided me at all costs up until a few days ago. He sent me a text asking if we can talk. I said ok and the first words out of his mouth as I walked up to him were, "I'm never gonna see the baby or be there for him. You know that right?" I was like wtf? "That's what you wanted to tell me? You kinda made that pretty clear already." He then proceeded to say he thought that by acting like a jerk I would have had an abortion. And how can I bring a child into the world that won't have a dad. And it looks horrible in his culture. How can I do that to him? What if he looks for him later? And how is he gonna feel knowing he has a child out there somewhere that's his? I told him that's not my problem and it's his guilt to carry because I'm having my baby boy. If he changes his mind and wants to see him he knows how to contact me as I would never try to keep him away from his child. It's up to him. Starting asking me if my friends are "egging me on." Lol. Um...I have a mind of my own. I told him I'm not like him. His family and friends are putting sh*t in his head. They all hate that I'm pregnant. They hated that he was with me to begin with. He used to say he didn't care what anyone said. But now I see he's just like them. I made it clear I want nothing from him. He saw that he couldn't convince me and started saying I'm being sooo irrational. Really?? I'M being irrational because I don't want to kill my baby?? My God...the ignorance is strong with this one.
