Yeah it's easier said than done

@brismom, I hate to see any new mom feel this way, it's really not okay my dear

@brismom, It would probably help if he stood up for you, just because she wants something a certain way doesn't mean she's entitled to get it. I think you should voice your opinion and nip it in the bud now. It'll only get worse from here.

He basically just kind of brushes it off. I know he's wanting to not get in the middle because he wants me to be happy but he also wants his mom to be happy...it's just hard because then it's nights like these that I miss her whiles she's at her granny's house....but then of course today she gave her bananas today without even asking me. It's a really tough situation. @chocolatebeauty,

@brismom, Stand your ground, she's your daughter not hers. If YOU aren't comfortable, then don't do it. What does your husband say?