I asked my boyfriends mom for help getting through to him and ever since she's acting like she…

I asked my boyfriends mom for help getting through to him and ever since she's acting like she pushed me out of her vagina. Ugh. We have a wedding to go to saturday she tells me,"I don't want you just wiping it out you should leave to go nurse" theyre telling not to include my boyfriend on a medicaid application because i'm not married i'm a single mother(which i'm not he lives with me and helps take care of his son),then she knows i have bronchitis,she just had a stupid cold and told me i went to work. Then i told if i cant breathe i wont go. She goes,"youre Jobs no harder than mine" when i asked her you know what i do? I told her i need to talk all the time,you just need to walk and that shut her up. She told me,"you better go to work" as if i'm her child straight from her chute. She attributes my illness to not excersing then she tells me i need a different asthma med(she just has sinus issues not asthma). I have a pulmonoligist and an ENT. The doctor told me that because i have asthma it can turn a minor cold into something worse so a cold for me is not just a cold. Also when i put vicks on the other day i said it itched. She said,"no doesnt" apperently i'm allergic to anything that has menthol in it. Then she always asks about money and my SSI things i never ask her that are none of her business.