I'm tired of always messing everything up.....I messed up my life until I met him, now I'm messing up his life

There is always something that can be done! Don't put your head in the sand, yet! Call the courthouse and try to resolve and request another appointment! You guys weren't there and therefore can fight it!

and it's all my fault

they literally awarded her everything. sole legal and physical rights

😢 that sucks... I'm sorry. I'm sure you can challenge it and explain to the judge what happened.

There has to be a way to fight the decision

I mistakenly wrote the wrong day on the calender for his Court case and since he couldn't defend himself they gave his ex full everything for their son