RANT. like I think it's kind of dumb how someone made a gofundme page just because they had an…
RANT.
like I think it's kind of dumb how someone made a gofundme page just because they had an emergency c section while there's so many other mothers out here that have emergency c sections as for myself and never made one. or made anyone feel bad for me because my S/O had to miss work. I didn't have anything for my first born neither did I have anything for my second and not once did I go make a gofundme page for stuff. like IDK in my opinion I honestly think that is dumb I would understand if maybe something went horribly wrong or something as for passing away on the operating table or you know but just because y'all are young and have absolutely everything due to yalls family I honestly don't see the point of making one and then have the nerve to call people tacky today because they got married for free? well there's alot of people who cannot afford a wedding and weddings are very expensive. but whatever girl asking for money just cause you had a c section is tacky there's million of women who have them and not once ask or beg for money.
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I asked for an emergency csection. Smh people are nuts.
Kayla M.·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@js_kidsmom yessss girl IDK it pissed me off how she calls one thing tacky but just because you had a c section and begged for money basically isn't tacky?
Camden·
@ppb14pj16, ummmm no! I'm with you! You don't get money for giving birth. Like you said, maybe if something tragic happened and the father is trying to raise money for the baby etc, but knowingly, you were going to give birth one way or another, and undoubtedly, you husband was going to take some time off! People go a little crazy with this go fund me stuff! Haha
Kayla M.·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
yessssssss OMG like I had an emergency c section with my 3yr old at 37 weeks my S/O was still in school but thankfully it was during Christmas break so he didn't miss and with my second daughter I had a scheduled c section but ended up having a emergency c section at 31 weeks because my placenta detached and my S/O did take time off work but still went back to work even though our baby was in the NICU he would go see her every night he got out of work and I didn't have nothing for both my babies and you didn't see me making a gofundme page. and I won't be making one this time around either because I will be having another c section and I honestly don't know if I'm going to have her early or what. I think having a wedding is more expensive in a sort of sense but that's just me. @purpledpink
Korahleah Sanchez·
Мама троих детей
Wow. Some people 😡
Kayla M.·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@korahleah_11 yeah but I guess that's people for you.
Amber☄·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
I hate seeing gofundme pages for things other than funerals. ESP for weddings! Soooo you want everyone else to pay for YOUR wedding?! bye! lol ugh and for a c-section. that's crazy. so can I make a page for my rent or my birth? lol smh ppl are crazy @ppb14pj16
Kayla M.·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
yess like if you want to get married and do have the money go to the court or just wait it out until u get the money and as for birth natural or c section girl no one else is going through that but you unless you adopt or have a a surrogate and they're the ones getting paid not you and when u adopt u get a check but for the kid not you (I believe so) but if you can't afford having a baby regardless your situation then you should have thought about that in the first place. and rent for your place that's talks fault for not saving or whatever the case like I understand the struggle believe me I do but somehow get through it all the times and my mother helps me out when she cans or whenever it's in her heart to ask me what the girls need my mom has her own life and she had her own kids to support now it's my turn but don't beg anyone for help then call someone else out because they couldn't afford something when you couldn't afford your giving birth and wanted extra stuff for yourself.
Kayla M.·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@doubleksmommy
Camden·
@ppb14pj16, lol! I'm with you! We have been in the ICU with my little guy for 8 weeks now, and he was a c section (my first was emergency, this one scheduled). Like a c section is a way to get your child out safely, not to be used as a cry for help. Lol