The funny thing about being a stay at home wife is my family and friends look at me as less…

The funny thing about being a stay at home wife is my family and friends look at me as less independent. And whenever i say im stressed its this whole big thing. Like " girl have some kids and tell me about stress then" or "when you have to do it by your self you will really see what stress is". 🤔🤔🤔 like im being shamed for being well taken care of 😑