When you get with someone who already has a child, you're taking on that child too so he is kinda your responsibility.

I get not wanting to walk around at 38 weeks pregnant but says he's not your responsibility is harsh.

yeah stepmomming is hard

...I'm 5 years in with 2 stepchildren and my own bio child plus one on the way. it onlg gets better if u set reasonable boundaries

@newlywedmama21 just like last night his kid came in crying cause he wanted to sleep in bed with us when his bed is LiTERALLY next to OURS ! he's 5 we live in a one bedroom so we are all in the same room .. I think it's a little too much he never used to do this

yep. u have to talk to him or make a decision for yourself.

@newlywedmama21 yess & I am not trying to be a bitch or anything but it's not my responsibility! it would be different if maybe he asked or something or even showed me he appreciates me but he doesn't ! He's getting comfortable & that's what I don't want

yeah that's my situation because he works and I'm on leave right now. but tHe mother doesn't get them or visit any more so I don't have to deal with that. but u have to put ur.foot down. he needs.to realize that if u werent there he couldn't have his kid so he needs to figure things out not you...

I watch him Wednesday- Saturday! I'm not gonna do this once my baby gets here I need my rest

@newlywedmama21 they went to court to custody he won & got his days & I get stuck watching him all day everyday! im with him more Than his dad ! He wanted more days HE got them & I get stuck dealing with it like wtf !

@mami1234 EXACTLY! NOT MY RESPONSiBiLiTY

no!! if its mandatory then he needs to do it. that's not ur responsibility and its quite disrespectful to expect all that especially while pregnant. I'm a stepmom too. u have to put ur foot down or it gets worse

The nerve of him even mentioning that . She can come get her kid your right.