aileenlove09
Aileen
my man just got a new job from 7 a.m. to 8 p.m. .. his kid is here from Wednesday morning at 11 to Saturday night ... he expects me drive him to work , watch his kid everyday & pick him up from work .. today I had a doctors appointment to get my cervix checked & of course his son was there .. which was awkward asf! then I had to take him to my eye doc appointment.. & hes not the best kid. he touches everything runs around screams & doesn't listen .. my question is I cannot & refuse to deal with him once my baby gets here . I will be recovering & beast feeding & I am a FTM .. I'd like to bond with just MY BABY & not have to worry about anything else !!! 😣 WHAT DO I DO
09.02.2017
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kambam
Yes and i agree not your responsibility he has a mom. Youre just mama # 2!
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aileenlove09
well I appreciate the advice ! thank you so much & I will definitely have him look into it ! thanks again 😄 @kambam
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kambam
Jobs arent allowed to discriminate during family leave and if hes qualified he can break the time up in diff ways. Like one week off etc. But he should do the paperwork asap if thats the plan. Just trying to help ☺ I hope you can sort it. Poor mama.
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aileenlove09
I know it's his kid & I am a part of his life now but he's honestly not my responsibility! especially if he doesn't listen nor respect me why should I have to deal with him ? not my kid
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aileenlove09
oh yeah I don't think he can get that due to the fact he just started last week .. & yes I feel the same way I am due in 13 days & barley took my maternity leave yesterday! I want to rest too.. @kambam
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kambam
Paid family leave. Not sure how it works in AZ but it's paid by unemployment. Honestly he needs to step up and figure it out with his child!! You deserve a break and bonding time w new baby 😠
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aileenlove09
what is pfl ? & he doesn't really have family except his mom who is unemployed & lives down the street.. but she doesn't want to watch him I've asked already & she always has an excuse .. @kambam his kid will LiTERALLY cuss me out & he likes to choke my dogs & kick them when he doesn't get his way ! hes ONLY 5 & its overwhelming for me I can only do so much
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kambam
im assuming he won't be able to take pfl? 😕 if he's willing he should try so you can have his help. ask any and all family for help and stay in the hospital and rest until they kick you out 😁
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aileenlove09
@kmblackledge92 I asked for advice /help not for you to try & judge me . I do accept the child & take care of him every day ! but I want a break once my baby gets here !
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aileenlove09
@kambam I do but she isn't a person to work things out with she completely hates me & there dates are settled from court
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kambam
do you have contact with the child's mom? I'd ask if she can keep him there when the baby is born. dad can visit his son there until you're settled?
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