We didn't do the dna test yet and rumors were saying I slept with like 10 ppl(which was bullshit I knew it was his and said I told u so to lot of ppl) so he didnt believe it was his right away. But now he really excited to see baby . I might let him take him friday and bring him back sunday.
So hes not on the birth certificate yet but eventually will be. @mrsgraffiti @bitter-sweet97 @dalling012589
If you are uncertain then do not do it . If the father wants to see the child he can meet you for the day or something . 2 hours away in my opinion may be risky with only being 2 months old . @beanieboo,
I don't want the answer to this, I just want you to think about it as you weigh in your decision. Why is he not listed as the father on the birth certificate? What reason did you find that he was not fit to be listed as the child's father?
Again, I don't want you to answer that. That's none of my business and I would never presume to be righted that information. I just want you to think about that, and decide whether you trust him with your child by himself with you being too far away to get to him if you needed to. Good luck mama! I'll be sending you good vibes in your tough decision.
If you are in good terms with him and trust him then ok. How do you feel about it? It's perfectly fine to be scared or unsure if you are. That's pretty far away for him being so little but then it's his dad he's going with so it's a hard decision