this may sound like a stupid question but I don't know what else to do.. once I've given birth if I…

Yes. I did that. They were very understanding, I just gave them the names who weren't welcome xx

@lucyspear. great, thankyou xx

yes I actually got asked if the was anyone not welcome to visit @squish86 x

@mother_of_humans that's what it's like at my hospital, I just want it to be Me and my partner but MIL just won't listen x

@chesscalouise2 I don't want to be horrible but I don't want the in laws there, it's gotten that bad there actually arguing over who's going to be in the delivery room, whos going to hold her first and then saying "your not seeing her without me there ect" it's just ridiculous x

@mother_of_humans great thanks, may have to resort to that last bit that's how bad she is x

@squish86 oh my god this is terrible is it just your partners mother or his while family thats like this? x

@chesscalouise2 it's my partner's mother x

Jesus dont know how your putting up with it! what does your partner say about it will he be alright if you ban her from visiting while your in hospital then again who cares this time is about you and your new baby! put your foot down if your not happy easier said than done I know but you won't be able to get that time back so make it special @squish86 x

@chesscalouise2 Its a nightmare, he doesn't agree with banning her but he's suggested not telling her when I go Into labour. It's a lot more of a big deal as this is the furthest I've ever gone in a pregnancy after 4 losses and I just want it to be me and my partner x

if use dont reply to her messages or phone calls do you think she will know your having the baby though? and totally understandable that you want it too be just you and your partner are you close to her at all? @squish86 x

Post natal wards are closed wards people can't just wander in. If midwives are aware there is a problem then they won't be allowed on the ward

@chesscalouise2 hopefully not, we see her once a week but she calls almost everyday x

@h04 good to know, thanks